Random May thoughts….
We all give off an energy at a particular point in life and as such this energy reverberates with the things around us, and that’s why happy people will attract happy people, sad people, will vibe with the sad, and if you look closely, you usually associate with particular people because you are giving off a certain energy they are resonating with. This also applies in our work, school, home and eventually the people we relate with. Have you ever asked yourself why you dated someone at a particular point in your life? Ever wondered what your resonance was at that point? Resonance negates the need for there to a be a one but rather ones.
It is easy to relate with someone because of their vibe, and sometimes this is what creates the attraction. Resonance fills particular quotas, personal quotas and in my thoughts, they are; physical, emotional/mental, spiritual, financial and family. The ultimate quota is the metaphysical quota and this combines all the above.
Here’s an example, in my very first relationship, I just wanted to date. I didn’t care for what dating meant, I wanted to date someone and this was brought on by the physical and emotional quotas. These are what drove my very first relationship, but as I grew up, there was a need for more and thus kicked in the mental quota. What defined relationships for me at a younger age were physical, emotional and mental and this was for most of my college school life. When I started to work, and started to earn, the financial quota gradually kicked in. A relationship for me needed the physical, emotional, mental and financial quotas. A new dynamic was introduced, the dating game had changed. It wasn’t a dorm room anymore but a lunch date here, a night out there.
As a I grew older, and the financial quota was sated, I looked for the final quota which is family, and this one usually comes with spirituality. When your mind fills every other quota and you feel everything has been sated, then you start to look for a life partner. That one person you are willing to spend your life with. Your resonance starts to search for someone with similarities, you carefully scrutinize their family, their religion, state of belief, and whether they match with yours.
Resonance is two heart beats flowing rhythmically, and most times, you might be at different levels (age) but like in physics when you resonate the first fork, and take time to resonate a similar fork, they eventually chime at the same pitch. What is your resonance?