What a Year!
“Daddy,” he calls me, every after five minutes. I’ve been working mostly from home this year since June and that has allowed my son and I to enjoy quality time albeit at the craziest of times. There’s nothing as beautiful as seeing your child grow, and become their own self.
In retrospect, when I look at him, I now understand legacy and heritage, the past and the present. I am now more than excited to see what the future holds for him.
This year has had its ups and downs. Many times I’ve thought to write, and yet words have failed me, pun intended. It seems the older you grow, the fewer your words become such that when you speak, there’s only wisdom that comes out of your mouth. Now I know why our grandparents always had nuggets of knowledge and wisdom, the world ate their words.
Music has been an integral part of my thought process and I have very much enjoyed this year’s playlist. Also, my boy starts school next year!
If there’s lessons to take home this year, then my biggest will be God’s timing! Understanding it and appreciating it. Even better, knowing that if God doesn’t want if for me, then why would I want it for myself. I have summarily touched upon the knowledge and wisdom of the heavens and I am trying to apply them to my life.
I believe my biggest take home this year is spiritual wisdom! And I am grateful for that and the people who’ve mentored me.
Maybe patience too. Well, having children will teach you that. We went from failing to potty train to I want to pupu don’t peep while I am on the toilet in six months and I can’t help but laugh at ourselves. Man, oh man! Children will humble you! And when I look at my parents, I give them all their flowers because wena nimpurira ekiri bakushasha aha bana babo!
Did I already say writing is cathartic?
2022 has been a blessed year, for many reasons but most especially finding who I am. I have made many mistakes this year but there’s much to write home about. There’s been many friends, and enemies to. But I am thankful and indeed there’s need for a thanksgiving.
Thankful for family. Thankful for friends. Thankful for work. Thankful to my wife and child(ren). Thankful to God.
This is a toast to 2022, and a happy holidays to everyone this season. A toast to 2023! May this new season bring a renewed vigour and energy in all of us. May we enjoy it and live it and in it. To new challenges in 2023. Let us keep writing our best chapter yet.
Happy New Year to everyone and to a 2023!